This is great advice concerning the establishment of proper boundaries. This girl shouldn’t have to put up with that kind of behavior from someone who says that he is her boyfriend. Nevertheless, they are not married, which makes him technically free to do whatever he wants. That doesn’t excuse his boorish behavior, but this isn’t the same as giving advice to a married woman whose husband is acting like this fool is. My added advice would be to help he realize that if she had any thoughts of marrying this fool to think otherwise, because if he does this now, he’ll do it later, regardless of any marriage bonds. Barring a miracle, this relationship is headed straight for the rocks. He is selfish and needs to grow up, while she is fooling herself by thinking it is worth hanging on to someone who seems not to be able to let go of his former lust partner.